Year: 2020

The Herstory of AWARE: Lives touched over 35 years of advocacy

“I think this is something that we could rely on in future, when violence happens again. That really gave us hope.”

AWARE was founded in 1985 and marks its 35th birthday in 2020. In that time, the organisation has effected important changes in Singapore laws and policies relating to gender equality—impacting, whether directly or indirectly, countless lives. In this video, we hear from five such individuals whose trajectories would have been different if not for AWARE’s advocacy and services.

Speakers:

  • Jade Kua, emergency medical specialist
  • Bryan Choong, social service consultant and advocate
  • Aleesha Khan, advocate for survivors of sexual violence
  • Kerstin Ong, national athlete and advocate for survivors of sexual violence
  • Cynthia, counsellor and befriender
  • Siti, parent and participant of AWARE’s S.H.E. Project

This video was first screened at the AWAREHouse Party virtual celebration on 28 November, 2020.

For a more in-depth look at AWARE’s history, read “Becoming AWARE” by Kontinentalist (whose graphics appear in this video).

Thanks to Devon Wong, Mocha Chai Laboratories and Lim Ting Li.

AWARE raised $500,000*, handed out annual Alamak! Awards at its first-ever virtual charity ball, the AWAREHouse Party

This post was originally published as a press release on 30 November 2020.

In celebration of its 35th birthday, gender-equality group AWARE held a virtual fundraising gala, the AWAREHouse Party, on the evening of Saturday, 28 November. 

With official measures for COVID-19 limiting social gatherings to five guests, this year AWARE eschewed the hotel ballroom venue typical of its nine previous balls. The organisation instead arranged simultaneous parties at supporters’ houses across the island, united by a three-hour live-streamed programme and a multi-course feast catered by Grand Hyatt Singapore. A total of 300 guests attended these intimate affairs, dressing up in colourful outfits for the theme of “OutRAGEous”.

By the end of the night, donations totalled $500,000.* This amount was raised through direct donations, a silent auction and raffle, as well as ticket sales for the AWAREHouse Party. The funds go to AWARE’s NextGen campaign, dedicated to nurturing a new cohort of change-makers and ensuring that women and girls continue to receive essential assistance and support. NextGen will enable the maintenance and expansion of AWARE’s services, and sustain AWARE’s research on caregiving, workplace harassment, migrant rights and many other issues.

“It was such a privilege to celebrate this landmark anniversary with so many beloved guests, volunteers and members of the AWARE community,” said AWARE Executive Director, Ms Corinna Lim. “Even though we were unable to get together in person, the enthusiasm from our supporters was palpable. During a difficult year, these moments of camaraderie and love give us an extra jolt of energy to keep going with AWARE’s advocacy and services—especially as we gear up for the upcoming landmark gender equality review.”

Much of the AWAREHouse Party programme centred on AWARE’s historical successes in advocating for gender equality. Guests watched a “Herstory” retrospective video with heartfelt testimonials from women and men whose lives had been touched by AWARE’s efforts over the years. They also watched a montage of “happy birthday” wishes to AWARE, sent in by notable local names: from esteemed social scientist Noeleen Heyzer, influencer Preetipls and sexual assault survivor Monica Baey to Emeritus Senior Minister Goh Chok Tong and Minister of Law and Home Affairs K. Shanmugam.

A major highlight of the night was the Alamak! Awards, AWARE’s annual tongue-in-cheek “tribute” to the year’s most sexist incidents. As per tradition, musical satire group Chestnuts presented each of the four nominees in the form of hilarious song parodies. This year’s nominees were the Telegram group SG Nasi Lemak, the podcast OKLETSGO, the gender pay gap and the “potential” that is commonly believed to justify light sentences for perpetrators of violence against women. As voted by Party guests and members of the public, the winner of this dubious honour was the “potential”. Ms Lim added that she was pleased that the government had recently announced a review of the sentencing framework for such offenders.

Other entertainment was delivered by hosts Pam Oei and Becca D’Bus; actresses Janice Koh and Petrina Koh, who regaled viewers with outrageous stories; as well as performers Nathan Hartono, Andrew Marko and Oliver Ow, who improvised comedic musical numbers based on suggestions from guests. As the night drew to a close, a dance set by DJ Aldrin Quek kept guests on their feet.

Sponsors for the AWAREHouse Party included Bar @ Lorong 13, Grand Hyatt Singapore, Martell, Playground Studio, PPURPOSE, Shooting Gallery Asia, World Scientific, Kah Motor, KOP Limited, MUFG Investor Services and Tan Ean Kiam Foundation.

*At the time this press release was issued, the figure was $480,000. Since then, one more donor has made a contribution. This post has been updated accordingly on 2 December 2020.

9 December 2020: Saga podcast premiere and virtual listening party

March 2009: When 100 strangers arrive at a run-of-the-mill meeting for Singapore gender-equality group AWARE, long-time members sense that something is wrong. Who are the mysterious women wresting control of this respected volunteer organisation? And what disturbing secret unites them? What happens next becomes the stuff of national legend: starting with an astonishing coup and culminating in an extraordinary declaration of equality and justice. Welcome to the AWARE Saga.

Saga is a limited-series podcast hosted by acclaimed former journalist Bharati Jagdish. With this podcast, we:

• Tell the never-before-heard stories of key players in this gripping national event
• Examine impacts of the AWARE Saga, which have rippled outwards for the past decade
• Ask all-important questions about democracy, fairness and bridging societal divides

At 7-9pm on 9 December, join us as we kick off the Saga podcast with a virtual listen-along session to the first two episodes of the series, followed by a conversation with the creators! This premiere will take place over Zoom.

Register here!

Position Filled: (Senior) Volunteer Manager

We are no longer accepting applicants for this role.

AWARE’s Secretariat department is looking for a Volunteer Manager to oversee the recruitment, management, engagement, training, evaluation and coordination of all types and levels of volunteers across AWARE. This includes, but is not limited to, board members, event staff, ad-hoc/special projects volunteers, skilled/pro-bono and Helpliners.

The Volunteer Manager ensures that volunteer skills and interests are best matched with the needs of AWARE to most effectively supplement staff resources and engage the community. The Volunteer Manager will also develop new programmes to recruit, train and engage volunteers to extend AWARE’s work and fundraising. In addition, the Volunteer Manager will be responsible for reviewing and enhancing AWARE’s volunteer management polices and programme.

This is an exciting opportunity for someone new to the social sector who is committed to social justice and looking for a concrete way to contribute to society in Singapore. The ideal candidate will be a great executor, extremely well-organised, able to work independently, and passionate about working with people in a collaborative manner.

Position: (Senior) Volunteer Manager
Department: 
Secretariat
Salary range: $4,800 – 5,800
Starting date: Immediate
Term: Two-year contract
Eligibility: This role is a two-year commitment in partnership with NCSS and is only open to Singapore citizens and Permanent Residents who are currently outside the social sector.

Job Description

  • Develop AWARE’s volunteer strategy in collaboration with the various departments
  • Manage ongoing recruitment, training, utilisation, and engagement of volunteer pool
  • Evaluate, enhance and implement volunteer management policies and processes (e.g. volunteer training, development, recognition, engagement)
  • Optimise the utilisation of existing volunteer management system to track and utilise relevant volunteer data
  • Creatively and optimally deploy interested volunteer talent to best utilise their skills and cover necessary work within AWARE
  • Assist in development and launch of a corporate volunteer ambassadors programme
  • Source, develop and sustain collaborations with other community stakeholders, corporate partners and government agencies
  • Develop and deploy staff training on volunteer management best practices
  • Use data to show meaningful YOY insights about the volunteer management programme
  • Deliver effective on-boarding and training to new volunteers entering the organisation

Requirements

This role is a two-year commitment in partnership with NCSS and is only open to Singapore citizens and Permanent Residents who are outside the social sector.

  • 5-8 years of professional experience in people management, stakeholder management, strategic work, resource management and/or project management
  • Must have substantial volunteer experience, been involved in Corporate CSR programmes or in managing volunteers
  • Individual looking for career switch (encouraged)
  • Collaborative, energetic, self-motivated, and engaging, with strong multi-tasking skills and sound judgment. Able to effectively and diplomatically work with diverse groups of colleagues, volunteers, members and other constituents
  • Demonstrated commitment to measuring outcomes and thriving within a results-oriented culture. Effective organisational skills and good orientation to information systems, data management and procedures
  • A high degree of customer service orientation, personal motivation and commitment to values that support AWARE’s mission and vision
  • Able to work both independently and collaboratively in cross-functional teams and solve problems creatively
  • Outstanding organisational and time management skills
  • University degree/diploma, or equivalent combination of education and experience

Read our privacy policy here.

Please note that due to the large number of applications, only shortlisted applicants will be contacted for an interview. If you have any questions about this position, please email careers@aware.org.sg.

Legislate six days of paid eldercare leave

This letter was originally published in The Straits Times on 20 November 2020. 

Family caregivers face difficulty juggling caregiving responsibilities with paid work, due to the high demands of both (Good time to look at legislating parent-care leave, Nov 18). Unsurprisingly, many are forced to quit their jobs or reduce their working hours to cope with caregiving duties.

This was the case for about 67 per cent of the respondents in the Association of Women for Action and Research’s (Aware) 2019 research on the conflict between caregiving and work for female caregivers to the elderly.

Even for those who employ migrant domestic workers to help, Aware’s research shows that family caregivers are still primarily responsible for caregiving tasks. These include care navigation, arranging for medical appointments, speaking to care professionals and managing care costs.

While family caregivers who are working can take time off for caregiving, such leave tends to be unpaid, and is an insufficient solution. Last year, only one in five employers offered paid family care leave.

In Aware’s research, caregivers expressed a fear of being penalised or dismissed from their jobs because too much time off may make them seem less committed to work. Since caregiving leave is mostly unpaid, those who do take it experience a significant loss in income.

Additionally, eligibility for caregiving leave – at least for those in companies that follow the Tripartite Standard on Unpaid Leave for Unexpected Care Needs – is limited to cases where caregiving recipients are hospitalised. But many caregivers tend to those who suffer from chronic illnesses (which can suddenly flare up), and those unable to perform activities of daily living. Caregivers are, thus, often forced to use their annual leave and forgo time off for themselves.

The call to review and potentially legislate parent-care leave for all is the right step forward, especially in view of Singapore’s ageing population and growing workforce. We should legislate six days of paid eldercare leave, like the six days of childcare leave currently available. (Workers caring for both children and the elderly would therefore receive 12 days of paid leave.)

Paid care leave should be available to all workers and should be extended to all primary family caregivers regardless of their relationship to the care recipient. However, to keep business costs low for employers, the leave could be restricted to those living with their care recipients.

Family caregivers should be given the right amount of support in thanks for their dedication to their family and the labour force.

Jasmine Gomez, Project Consultant, Association of Women for Action and Research

Becoming AWARE: 35 years of women’s activism – by Kontinentalist

To commemorate our 35th birthday on 25 November 2020, Singaporean editorial studio Kontinentalist put together a beautiful, comprehensive overview of AWARE’s work to date. Titled Becoming AWARE: 35 years of women’s activism, the article charts AWARE’s advocacy efforts, public campaigns, community training, support services and much more.

A big thank you to the team at Kontinentalist for their dedicated research and brilliant conceptualisation!

Explore the full article here.

Story by Loh Pei Ying, Isabella Chua, Kenneth Wee and Mick Yang
Design by Amanda Teo
Code by Siti Aishah

Respondents needed for study on image-based sexual abuse in Singapore

Image-based sexual abuse (IBSA) is the non-consensual production and/or distribution of intimate photographs and videos, or the sexualised digital alteration of photographs or videos of the victim. It also includes threats to non-consensually produce, distribute or alter photographs or videos.*

This study seeks to explore the recourse available to survivors of IBSA in Singapore. It centres the experiences of survivors who have taken action to (i) hold perpetrators accountable, (ii) have their images removed from platforms, (iii) seek other remedies.

For example, you may have called on your school or workplace to take action against perpetrators; made police reports; applied for Personal Protection Orders; contacted social media platforms or moderators of groups on platforms; and so on. If you are a survivor of IBSA who has taken any of those types of actions, we would love to speak with you.

Participant criteria

  • You are aged 18 – 65 years,
  • You have experienced a form of IBSA,
  • You sought recourse for the IBSA that happened, and
  • The IBSA happened in Singapore within the last 5 years.

OR

  • You have not experienced IBSA but helped a victim-survivor (meeting the criteria above) with seeking recourse, and
  • The victim-survivor has not been interviewed for this study.

Interview details

  • Each interview will be approximately 1 to 1.5 hours long.
  • Interviews will be conducted online over a secure video conferencing platform, at a date and time of your convenience. Alternatively, should you be more comfortable with having the interview in person, arrangements can be made for that.
  • You will receive a token of appreciation of $30 upon the conclusion of the interview.
  • All interview findings will be anonymised, and your personal details kept confidential.

Please email Yi Ting at lyt.leeyiting@gmail.com, to indicate your interest in participating. Indicate “IBSA Research” in the subject title. You will receive a response within three working days.

*As IBSA falls under a broad umbrella of technology-facilitated sexual violence, and is not always sharply delineated, please feel free to email lyt.leeyiting@gmail.com if you are unsure if you have experienced IBSA.

Going through divorce? Join our support group

Important: Due to limited resources and overwhelming demand for counselling services during this period, AWARE’s support groups have been cancelled until further notice. Clients seeking support for divorce-related issues can reach out to our Women’s Helpline at 1800 777 5555 to speak with a trained Helpliner, and explore other options, such as seeking legal advice and counselling services.

 

Divorce can be difficult. If you are recently divorced, or are going through divorce proceedings now, AWARE’s support group might be able to help. Come meet and learn from other women facing similar struggles.

Together, we will learn ways to cope with emotional upheavals, adapt to changes, restructure our lives meaningfully and embrace this new stage of life with hope and positivity.

“The support group (is) a meeting place for the divorcees to come together to encourage, comfort and be a sounding board for one another, and not feel alone with our challenges. I feel that I went through a well thought-through, well-structured and well-organised programme, and not just a social gathering.”

Former participant

 

Eligibility: Women who have been divorced for less than two years and women who are in the midst of divorce proceedings.

Registration fee: $100

 

Selection of group members is based on different variables since our focus is to embrace compatibility and cohesiveness of the group composition. Applicants will be contacted in a timely manner before the start date.

Migrant domestic workers caring for the elderly afflicted by overwork, inaccurate job matching and inadequate support: AWARE-HOME study

This post was originally published as a press release on 11 November 2020.

The struggles faced by both migrant domestic workers (MDWs) and caregivers for the elderly in Singapore have, separately, been mainstays in recent national conversation. Yet the stress faced by individuals for whom these identities are compounded—that is, MDWs who perform eldercare—has been given little consideration.

A new report, entitled Neither Family Nor Employee: the Caregiver Burden of Migrant Domestic Workers in Singapore, finds that this stress (known as “caregiver burden”) results from poor job matching, overwork and a lack of caregiving-specific support for MDWs.

The report is the first research collaboration between gender equality organisation AWARE and the Humanitarian Organisation for Migration Economics (HOME), who conducted interviews with 25 MDWs providing eldercare, four MDW employment agencies (EAs), seven employers of domestic workers for eldercare, and five providers of formal eldercare training. These interviews took place between December 2019 and September 2020.

“This is the first local study bringing together the perspectives of MDWs, their employers, employment agencies and private eldercare training providers,” said Ms Shailey Hingorani, Head of Research and Advocacy at AWARE. “As we rapidly age as a society, our reliance on MDWs is likely to increase. Unless we pay specific attention to the consequences of caregiving to the mental and physical health of MDWs, we run the risk of compromising the quality of care given to our elders—a lose-lose scenario.”

For Singaporean families, employing MDWs is seen as a relatively affordable way for individuals to age in place with round-the-clock, live-in care service. Of all households in Singapore who employed MDWs in 2018, one in five had employed them for help with eldercare. Yet researchers discovered that inconsistencies in the critical initial process of matching MDWs to employers ultimately penalised domestic workers and care recipients alike. There is currently no standard practice for assessing either the caregiving needs of elderly persons or the caregiving abilities of MDWs. As a result, 20% of the MDWs interviewed were providing a higher level of care than they had been prepared for before they were hired.

On top of this, the MDWs lacked sufficient emotional and informational support to deal with their wards’ evolving care needs—for example, when caring for a person with dementia. Fifty-five per cent of MDW respondents looking after persons with dementia faced verbal abuse, and 36% faced physical abuse. Yet neither employers nor most employment agencies are equipped or incentivised to provide support when those situations arise.

Another factor that worsens MDWs’ caregiver burden is the lack of specific legislation prescribing the maximum number of hours that MDWs should work. Many of the MDWs interviewed work for an average of 14.5 hours a day. Often forced to juggle both caregiving and housework responsibilities, MDWs suffered from headaches, body pains and interrupted sleep. Eighty-four per cent of MDW respondents did not have a weekly rest day, and when they were granted time off from work, it never spanned a full 24 hours.

“Domestic workers are workers like anyone else in Singapore, and it does not make any sense to treat them differently,” said Ms Jaya Anil Kumar, a case manager at HOME. “The lack of regulation of domestic workers’ working hours leads to complaints of overwork from many domestic workers, and adversely affects their well-being.”

AWARE and HOME presented a list of recommendations in the light of these findings. The organisations suggested that policymakers strengthen legislative protection of MDWs and guarantee access to respite services. They also proposed generating a standard care needs matrix (which would enable the professional categorisation of care needs and MDW skill levels) to prevent poor job matching, as well as expanding the scope of basic eldercare training, and better incentivising employers to hire trained MDWs. Lastly, the groups called for the creation of MDW-specific caregiver support resources, to help workers cope with a range of challenging caregiving situations.

In the long-term, the report concluded, the government should work towards professionalising live-in caregivers and home-care workers through a scheme akin to SkillsFuture. For example, salary guidelines might be pegged to the existing Skills Framework.

“Let’s chart a viable future in which domestic workers are valued for what they are: essential parts of so many Singaporeans’ lives,” said Ms Hingorani. “These actions could shift prevailing mindsets about care work—which is largely under-appreciated—and thereby improve the lot of women all over Singapore.”

Read the full Neither Family Nor Employee report here.


Annex – Selected respondent profiles (not their real names)

  • Nalin* is a domestic worker who has for two years been caring for a 92-year-old with dementia. Though she is exhausted from providing care throughout the night, Nalin finds it difficult to sleep during the day because she fears leaving her care recipient unsupervised. This lack of sleep creates a precarious situation for both caregiver and care recipient. “Because the whole day you are awake and you also have to wake up the whole night. It is hard… In the morning I have time to rest, but I cannot sleep. I really cannot.”
  • Kevaly* is a domestic worker who has for four months been caring for a wheelchair-bound 89-year old stroke patient, who also has early-stage dementia. When Kevaly fell ill, her employer prevented her from getting the rest that her doctor prescribed, and pressured her to accompany the elderly person to senior day care. “I showed him my MC. ‘But if you take leave now and Ah Gong is going to daycare, then how?’ he said. So I said, ‘It’s OK, I will go.’ I just said that, because ‘No, cannot, they gave me MC I’m going to rest’—I can’t say that, I won’t be able to suggest that.”
  • Diana* is a domestic worker who has for 10 years been caring for a 91-year-old bedridden care recipient with dementia. Before she was hired, she had not been informed that the care recipient was bedridden and would require help with all six Activities of Daily Living. “I just found out when I started working. Because back home in the Philippines, what was written about the job was an elderly alone at home, then you have to clean the car, to cook, and I accepted that. But when I got here, I found out they were actually in Mount Elizabeth Hospital. Bedridden—I mean, oh my God, the disparity was a lot.”
  • Athena* is a domestic worker who has for seven years been caring for an 85-year-old stroke patient with dementia. Several times during her caregiving journey, Athena has felt burnt out and reached out to her employer for support. He did not provide her with any caregiving-specific support, however, and instead implored her to persevere. “Sometimes I really tell the son, ‘I really cannot tahan [handle], I want to go home.’ Then the son answer, ‘You survived the previous year. Now we see Ah Ma is very weak… why you want to back out?’ Like that. So I keep praying only.”

Read the full narrative summaries from the report here.