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What constitutes workplace sexual harassment – response to Viswa Sadasivan

This is in response to a 19 February statement made by Viswa Sadasivan on Facebook. Refer to that statement here, as well as our previous comments (7 Feb, 11 Feb) on his behavior with Sharul Channa and Kiran Kandade.

Viswa has, in his latest statement, denied that his verbal comments to Sharul and his texts asking Kiran to kiss him were “sexual harassment”.

Viswa also said it was regrettable that we “did not ask for [his] account” before categorising his behaviours as such. Given the credibility of the victims’ statements, screenshots provided by Kiran and the response by Viswa to Sharul, we were satisfied with our understanding of the facts, the context for what happened and Viswa’s position. Nothing he has said has changed our reading of his actions as sexual harassment.

Given the public interest in this case, we would like to address the inaccurate assertions about workplace sexual harassment set out in Viswa’s statement. Unfortunately, Viswa’s misinformed views about workplace sexual harassment are not uncommon, so this provides an excellent opportunity to explain how workplace sexual harassment is determined.

Why Viswa’s statements constitute workplace sexual harassment

Workplace sexual harassment is defined by the UN Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination against Women (CEDAW, which Singapore signed in 1995) as “unwelcome sexually determined behaviour as physical contact and advances, sexually coloured remarks, showing pornography and sexual demand, whether by words or actions. Such conduct can be humiliating and may constitute a health and safety problem… it is discriminatory when the woman has reasonable grounds to believe that her objection would disadvantage her in connection with her employment, including recruitment or promotion, or when it creates a hostile working environment.”

The exchange with Sharul took place over Zoom, in the company of a number of Viswa’s staff. It was the first time that Sharul and Viswa were meeting. Sharul recounts the exchange as such:

Viswa: Why are you wearing that rose?
Sharul: I just put it on to distract from the pattern on my top.
Viswa: It would be more distracting if you were wearing only that rose.

This comment had the following impact: that Viswa was essentially telling Sharul that he was imagining her without clothes – wearing just a rose, exposed and vulnerable. In that instant, surrounded by professionals who had been subject to an image of her naked, Sharul was forcibly reduced to a sex object. The comment was demeaning, disrespectful and uncalled for; it would have naturally shocked and humiliated her.

Via Kiran’s screenshots, we know that in 2016 she had approached Viswa over WhatsApp with a professional request (to sit in on a workshop), and he had replied, “That wd mean 2 big kisses”, then later “U now owe me 3 big kisses!!” [sic]. It is highly inappropriate to imply that a professional opportunity could be granted in exchange for kissing. What’s more, though Kiran had ignored the first reference to kissing and replied entirely professionally, Viswa had repeated it, being even more direct about the transaction he was proposing (“owe”). To return to the CEDAW definition of workplace sexual harassment, “it is discriminatory when the woman has reasonable grounds to believe that her objection would disadvantage her in connection with her employment.”

It’s important to note that there have been two clear accounts of harassment against different victims, indicating a problematic pattern and not some one-off misunderstanding.

The importance of the perpetrator’s intentions

In his statement, Viswa argues that his intent had never been to harass, and so he should not be blamed for the accidental impact his words had on his victims. He disputes what he calls AWARE’s definition of sexual harassment: “In evaluating sexual harassment, while the impact on the victim is critical, that cannot be the only consideration. The situation must be fairly assessed, also taking into account factors such as intent and context.”

In fact, our understanding of sexual harassment is based on globally accepted standards, not our own definition.

By these standard definitions, intention is immaterial in establishing whether or not certain behaviours constitute harassment. The determinant is, instead, whether the victim was offended or distressed by the statement and whether that response was reasonable. (Intention can come into play but as a mitigating factor in deciding a perpetrator’s punishment.)

The Administrative Tribunal of the International Labour Organization has “specifically rejected the argument that intent on the part of the alleged perpetrator is required in order to establish harassment”.

Accordingly, we do not believe that Viswa has solid ground for denying that his behavior constituted sexual harassment. In Sharul’s case, he said he understood that Sharul might have seen it in the way she did, indicating that he thought it was a reasonable reaction. In Kiran’s case, he belatedly apologised to her.

On the role of social media

Lastly, Viswa wrote in his statement: “I do not believe that issues such as this can ever be resolved effectively on social media.” We would like to unpack this point a bit.

In the three years since #MeToo, the reasons for survivors choosing to speak up on social media have been well established. For one, addressing harassment allegations privately doesn’t always work in their favour, as entrenched systems are easily employed to silence, discredit and dismiss them. Private resolution can also be isolating for the victim—Sharul wouldn’t have known about Kiran, and possibly other victims, if she had not shared Viswa’s conduct online. We know of many sexual violence victims who are only persuaded to report their experiences after realising that others have suffered at the same perpetrator’s hands.

Social media disclosures are not without risks. Victims have to be prepared to deal with victim-blaming comments, as well as harassment directed at them and their family and friends—which both Sharul and Kiran have endured. Victims don’t make the decision to go public on a whim. We should not, therefore, be dismissive of social media as a channel for dialogue and justice—it is often the only recourse available.

This case also shows the need for more non-criminal channels to report workplace harassment. Freelancers like Sharul and Kiran do not have access to unions or government bodies like TAFEP to report to. Accessible channels would reduce the need to resort to social media.

Narratives of sexual harassment have always been shrouded in silence. In speaking their truths, survivors—Sharul, Kiran and many women who have come before them—have done the hard work of showing us that sexual harassment creates hostile and degrading work environments, and robs victims of their dignity. It’s up to us now to collectively challenge inappropriate conduct in workplaces and elsewhere, and not let those who were harassed carry that burden alone.

Looking for single fathers for project on single parents

tampines HDBAWARE’s Research and Advocacy team is looking to interview single fathers about their experiences accessing public housing after divorce.

Those who meet the following criteria are eligible to participate in the study:

  • Singapore citizen or PR
  • Divorced, separated, never married, widowed or with spouse in prison
  • Has care and control of child(ren)
  • No age limit
  • Qualifies for public housing, or has ever applied for public housing

This research project will examine issues single parents face, such as:

  • Long waiting periods are often involved in applying for a new flat
  • Complicated housing regulations which are always subject to change adds to the sense of confusion
  • Lack of housing stability that can adversely impact children of such divorces

The recorded interview will be conducted at a time and place of your convenience in December 2015. We will reimburse interviewees with a token sum of $30 at the end of the interview.

If you are a single father who meet the eligibility criteria and would like to share your experiences with us, or if you have any questions about this project, please sign up here or email Megumu at associate@aware.org.sg.

Thank you! Your participation in this project will help us better support single parents in future initiatives.

Women’s representation in politics here still lacking

businesswomenNEWBy Jolene Tan, Programmes and Communications Senior Manager

Oct 5 was a big milestone for Singapore. We celebrated 20 years of commitment to gender equality after acceding to the Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination Against Women (CEDAW) in 1995.

Despite some commendable steps towards gender equality, one area where Singapore is still lacking badly is political leadership, as became evident in the recent Cabinet appointments.

Disappointingly, only five of the 37 office-holders are women, making up 13.5 per cent of Cabinet. Only one full Minister, out of 20, is a woman. CEDAW recommends that women’s political representation should be at least 30 per cent to have a real impact on political style and content of decisions.

The Diversity Action Committee, which aims to increase representation of women directors on corporate boards, clearly recognises the need for gender diversity. The same should apply to the most important decision-making institution in Singapore, the Cabinet. Of course, it is unreasonable to expect 50-50 representation in Cabinet at this stage, when about a quarter of Parliament is female.

But after 20 years of CEDAW, it is fair to expect the Government to develop a specific roadmap for addressing the barriers to women’s participation in politics and ascension to leadership roles.

One issue that may be worth investigating is the barrier of unconscious bias. Unconscious bias affects every area of our lives. We naturally gravitate towards people who look like us, think like us and come from backgrounds like ours. Everybody has unconscious bias, but it is crucial to manage this so it does not affect important decision-making processes.

Research has shown that while people believe they would not reject a female job applicant based on gender alone, many employers have unconscious biases that respond more favourably to the same resume when it has a male rather than a female name.

Gender stereotypes, in many cases unconsciously held, are still prevalent in the political domain. From one politician calling his rival’s new-mother status a “weakness”, to another politician’s statement that fielding women “puts mother-child relationships at risk”, one does not have to look far for pervasive attitudes against women’s participation in public life.

Many corporations also suffer from a lack of gender diversity, but, crucially, have taken steps to implement solutions. Multinational companies such as Google and Facebook set targets for women’s advancement by acknowledging unconscious bias. Other corporate initiatives include staff training in unconscious bias, creating processes to remove biases through structured interviews and gender-diverse panels, and providing mentorship schemes.

The Government is answerable not only to shareholders, but to a diverse body of citizens with a rich variety of experiences. It is time for the Government to show leadership by setting up its own Diversity Action Committee, and take steps towards finally fulfilling the 20-year promise of CEDAW.

This letter was first published in TODAY Voices on 10 October 2015.

Candlelight vigil in memory of Amanat

BBB VOLUNTEER CALLOUTWe’ll be having our annual fundraising gala on Saturday 7 November at the Shangri-la Hotel, and we need you to help us make it a success!

The funds raised from our yearly galas are used to finance our support services to assist women in crisis, as well as our research and advocacy efforts for beneficial policy changes.

So if you’re someone who loves to dress up, enjoys interacting with people, and wants the excitement of delivering a memorable event, we need you! Three positions are required:

  • Table Host: Ensure the needs of guests are met
  • Auction Runner: Link between Table Hosts & Auction Manager
  • Lucky Dip Manager: Selling of lucky dip tickets

Volunteers will be required to attend a briefing session at the AWARE Centre. We have two dates for you to choose from: Monday 26 October or Thursday 29 October at 7pm – 8.30pm. Light refreshments will be provided.

Click here to sign up and be an important part of our 30th Anniversary celebration!

If you have any enquiries feel free to contact Jennifer at volunteering@aware.org.sg.

Dialogue Session: Sons and Daughters

HeaderJoin Yes, All Men and Gender Equality IS Our Culture (GEC) in talking about the different ways sons and daughters are treated in the family. How do religious and cultural ideas about men and women shape your role in your family? What hopes do your parents have of you as a son or a daughter?

It can be difficult to balance our dreams with the expectations of our elders. How can we respond when we disagree with what they want from us as sons or daughters? How do we keep the peace, yet move away from traditional ideas of what a son must achieve or how a daughter must behave?

Share your thoughts and stories in a safe, supportive and non-judgmental space. Explore practical strategies for responding to these conflicts in the home.

Details

Date: 26 September 2015 (Saturday)
Time: 7pm-9pm
Venue: AWARE Centre, 5 Dover Crescent, #01-22, Singapore 130005

This session is open to anyone aged 18-25 years old.

Register here.

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Training Workshop: Peer support and counselling

handsA friend tells you about their relationship woes. Your mind races with questions. Are they being abused? Should you say something? You wonder what to do. You worry about being intrusive. You’re not sure that what you say can really help at all.

Sounds familiar?

Come to this training session by experienced peer support trainer Jolanda Nava and learn how to create safe, non-judgmental spaces for your friends to share their feelings, work through any self-blame or shame, explore the choices available to them and make decisions about their situations.

This workshop will give you the tools to be an effective listener and empower you to support the people you care about. You will get the chance to:

  1. Learn the skill and importance of “active listening”
  2. Know what not to say
  3. Understand the difference between giving advice and providing options
  4. Practice constructive ways of responding in different scenarios, including sexual harassment, abusive relationships and bullying.

Why is this important?

Too many people feel they can’t speak up – or act against – abuse, assault and harassment in their lives. Violations against them happen in private spaces, behind closed doors, where police cars don’t patrol and the state shies away from interfering. It seems like nothing can be done.

But we – as family, friends, colleagues, classmates or neighbours – can change this, by creating an environment of support for those around us who are violated. We have the potential to be a great resource to someone in crisis.

Details

Date: 10 October 2015 (Saturday)
Time: 1pm-4pm
Venue: AWARE Centre, 5 Dover Crescent, #01-22, Singapore 130005

Register here.

About the trainer:
Jolanda is a We Can! Change Maker who has been training and serving as a peer supporter since 2012. She started a peer counselling group in her university (Yale-NUS) and the group now comprises 15 trained students and offers a drop-in service every weeknight. Jolanda also has extensive experience facilitating conversations in big and small groups.

Register now for this free training and take a further step towards creating safe, supportive communities. Slots are limited!

*Note: Peer counselling is NOT a substitute for professional counselling. We believe it is important for individuals to receive support from their communities as well as have access to the professional services they require.

Training Workshop: How to write letters to the papers

hp letterDo you ever feel bothered by news stories or discussions in the papers? Would you like to see more voices for equality in the mainstream media? Are there laws or policies you hope to see change?

Writing letters to the papers to is one valuable way to share your views and perspectives with readers beyond your social network. And it’s easier than you think! Come to this training session by AWARE’s communications manager, Jolene Tan, who has written and edited dozens of press letters and opinion pieces on a whole range of gender equality issues. She’ll cover:

  • Discussing issues effectively and strategically
  • Structuring a letter well
  • Getting the tone right
  • Standing out so that papers choose your letter
  • The practical bits: word limits, deadlines, etc.

Jolene will also stay in touch with you beyond the training session, to help refine and give feedback on your future letters.

Date: 3 September 2015 (Thursday)
Time: 8pm – 10pm
Venue: AWARE Centre, 5 Dover Crescent #01-22 Singapore 130005

Click here to register.

Register now for this free training, and take a further step to creating social change through the media. Slots are limited!

Gender Equality IS our Culture: Ramadan talks 2015

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Ramadan Talks are back! For our second round of Ramadan Talks we will be holding a 2-part series of presentations and discussions about Muslim women.

Transcending Multiracialism: A Case Study of the Hijab Debate in Singapore
by Humairah Zainal (NTU) and George Wong (NTU)

This presentation will critically examine the hijab debate that has persisted in Singapore and show that the current discourse centres around two main aspects:
(i) the problematization of the Malay-Muslim image by the state towards national identity and social cohesion; and
(ii) the role of the state as the sole guardian of racial harmony among the different racial and religious groups in Singapore.

Tuesday, 23 June 2015
SCWO
7PM to 9.30PM
Register for this talk here!

Reflections on Muslim Women’s Role and Contributions in History
by Diana Rahim and Ariz Yusaf Ansari

Diana Rahim will be presenting on Maryam, or Mary. She is widely recognised by the Christian community as the mother of Jesus. She is however, also one of the most revered women in the Islamic tradition. This presentation will go through Maryam’s significance in the Islamic context even though she lives in a pre-Islamic time, and what exactly is it that earned her such a significant status in the Islamic tradition, to a point of even having a surah named after her in the Qur’an.

Ariz Yusaf Ansari’s presentation will be about G Willow Wilson, a journalist, novelist and comic book writer. It will cover her experiences and the themes she tries to bring across through her diverse works of literature. It will also address how she contributed to the diverse narrative of religion in comic books and discuss the sociopolitical implications of the superhero archetype for Muslims.

Tuesday, 7 July 2015
SCWO
7PM to 9.30PM
Register for this talk here!

Individual price: $5 for 1 person/session
Pair price: $8 for 2 persons/session

Price includes cost of catered food.
Prayer space is provided.

Garage sale this Saturday!

10610007865_0a1bd13ab8_oAs we prepare for renovation of the AWARE Centre, we have a lot of stuff to give away! Come by our centre at Dover this Saturday, to get bookshelves, office chairs, sofas, desks, kitchenware and so much more – all at super low prices (or even FREE!).

Details:
Date: Saturday, 16 May
Time: 10am – 4pm
Location: AWARE Centre, 5 Dover Crescent, #01-22

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