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28 October 2023: AWARE Ball — Hysteria!

Something wicked this way comes: You’re summoned to a bacchanal of fantastical proportions at Hysteria! Immerse yourself in the bewitching delights of AWARE’s 2023 Ball this Halloween weekend on Saturday, 28 October

About Hysteria!

Leading us to face our deepest, darkest fears are our all-time favourite hosts, Pam Oei and Siti Khalijah. The much-loved Chestnuts return to skewer and spoof the real-life horrors of gender inequality (because let’s be honest—what’s scarier than sexism?) for our infamous Alamak Awards. Asian DJ icon Aldrin Quek is back on board to keep us partying the spooky night away. Just watch out for those frangipanis and banana trees… you never know what ghastly surprise might be waiting for you. 

Why this year’s theme? Women have long been demonised for all manner of imaginary sins (too “wanton”, too “emotional”, too “aggressive”… the list goes on). The very term “hysteria” was derived from the Greek word for uterus, cementing the association between women and emotional excess for centuries. It’s time to send up these horrifying stereotypes with as much wit, creativity and camp you can muster. Whether maiden or crone, Maenad or feminist martyr, Ursula or Glinda the Good Witch… your costume should be legendary! 

Grab your broomsticks and mark your cauldrons. RSVP to secure your place at this extraordinary affair by filling in this Google form here. You may also contact booking@aware.org.sg.

When: Saturday, 28 October 2023, 6.30pm until late

Where: Island Ballroom, Shangri-La Hotel Singapore

Dress Theme: Monsters, myths and madness. Think Halloween, but make it feminist. 


Why support Hysteria?

 Our annual fundraiser contributes 20% of AWARE’s funds and keeps our work alive. This year, we aim to raise $650,000 to:

  • fund our current support services, which help more than 5,000 women in need each year
  • advocate for a fairer future, and
  • develop the capacity of various communities – students, grassroot groups and low-income communities – to address sexual violence, workplace harassment and discrimination and other pressing gender issues.

How to join Hysteria?

Join in our revelry and support our work by booking tables and seats, or by making a donation:

  • Celestial Table (with VIP gift and bubbly): $7,000 ($700 per seat)
  • Muse Table: $6,000 ($600 per seat)
  • Warrior Table: $4,500 ($450 per seat)

All table purchases and donations will enjoy a 250% tax deduction. In addition, the Tote Board will match 40% of what AWARE raises at the Ball this year.

Let’s get hysterical!

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Research respondents needed: Survivors of coercive control in Singapore

AWARE’s Advocacy and Research department is currently looking for research respondents for a new study on coercive control in Singapore.

What is coercive control?

Coercive control is a pattern of behaviour where a person repeatedly isolates, degrades, exploits, controls, humiliates or frightens another. It can occur on its own or alongside other forms of abuse, e.g. physical or sexual abuse. Rather than a form of abuse, we can think of coercive control as a relationship dynamic that may be evident in various personal relationships, e.g. between spouses, partners, family members, friends, employers-employees.

Examples of coercive control

  • Continuously insulting you, resulting in you feeling ashamed, belittled, intimidated or humiliated
  • Stalking or monitoring your movements, e.g. tracking you through mobile apps, constantly calling you, turning up at your workplace
  • Isolating you from your family and friends
  • Threatening you or manipulating you to do things that you don’t want to, e.g. employer threatening to withhold your pay unless you work overtime, your partner threatening to hurt you if you see family members
  • Controlling your access to finances and making important financial decisions without your consent
  • Policing your lifestyle, e.g. controlling what you wear or who you can or cannot hang out with
  • Threatening to take custody of your children or questioning your capacity to parent
  • For migrant spouses and migrant domestic workers, your spouse/employer threatening to cancel or not renew your visit pass/work permit, or withholding your passport

If you’d like to see more examples of coercive control, you may refer to this comic series by artist Charis Loke.

Who can participate?

  • We are looking for individuals of any gender, aged 21 or above.
  • They must have experienced coercive control at the hands of a romantic partner (current or former), a family member or (if they are a migrant domestic worker) a live-in employer. The coercive control must have taken place in the past five years.
  • They must be a Singaporean or Permanent Resident (PR), with the exception of migrant domestic workers.
  • Ideally, participants should have received formal emotional support (such as counselling, psychotherapy, social services or similar) for coercive control.
  • Participants must be willing to participate in an interview that will take around 90 to 120 minutes.

Each participant will be given $100 as a token of appreciation. Interviews are in English. If you’d like to participate but English is not your preferred language for communication, please drop us an email at gec@aware.org.sg.

To register as a respondent, fill out this form.

 

Confidential and anonymous

Our research is confidential. This means that your personal information, such as your identity, residential status (e.g. citizen or permanent resident) and other information, will be anonymised. We will not contact the other parties involved in any situations described by respondents.

Support for respondents

Referrals to AWARE’s Sexual Assault Care Centre (SACC) and Women’s Care Centre (WCC) can be made before or after the interview. Emotional support is available, upon request, during the interview. Participation in the research is NOT a requirement in receiving referrals for help.


Frequently Asked Questions

1. What if I’m not sure that my coercive control was severe enough, or that I even experienced coercive control in the first place?

Coercive control takes many forms and includes a wide range of behaviours. Even if you suspect that you have experienced coercive control, please contact us! We will help you determine if you are eligible to participate in the study.

2. Must my experience of coercive control have been documented or reported officially (e.g. via a police report) for me to participate?

You are eligible to participate in this study whether you took official action or not. Coercive control is still not widely understood and many victim-survivors only realise they have experienced abuse long after the situation concludes. As reporting abusive behaviour can be very difficult, we understand that you may not have been in a position to do so.

3. Will others, such as my abuser, find out and retaliate against my participation in this study?

All participants’ interviews and details will be anonymised for their protection. This includes any identifying details of other people or places mentioned, such as the abuser who committed coercive control. There will be no release of confidential and private details. AWARE will not contact any individuals mentioned during the interviews. The audio recording of your interview will be deleted after the report is published, following research protocols. Finally, all the data about the report will remain encrypted to protect your privacy.

4. Do I have to name my abuser?

No. You do not need to use any full names or identifying details when describing your experiences to us. Only discuss what you feel comfortable with.

5. What if talking about my experience of coercive control is stressful or traumatic for me?

We will offer you counselling services before and after the interview. Additionally, at your request, a safety person from AWARE’s Sexual Assault Care Centre can sit in and provide emotional support to you during the interview. Your interviewer will be a woman with experience in interviewing survivors sensitively and confidently.

We understand that being interviewed about past experiences of coercive control can be traumatic. For some survivors, it helps to view this experience as a chance to gain a greater understanding of their lived experiences, and possibly help other survivors.

6. I have other questions or concerns about this study. Who do I talk to?

You can directly email the researchers of the project at gec@aware.org.sg.

A Recap: Conversation with Rowena Chiu

Written by Victoria Jagger, intern, AWARE

On Friday, 14 April, AWARE hosted a conversation with sexual assault survivor and advocate Rowena Chiu, during her two-week visit to Singapore. A small group of AWARE staff, members and friends were invited to hear Chiu recount her journey, from experiencing sexual assault at the hands of disgraced film producer Harvey Weinstein while she served as his personal assistant, to coming forward publicly about those injustices as part of the MeToo movement.

For context: On 5 October 2017, The New York Times published a bombshell article exposing Weinstein’s decades of sexual harassment against women in Hollywood. This sparked the global MeToo movement, based on a phrase coined by Tarana Burke in 2006 to empower sexual violence victim-survivors to speak up in solidarity. MeToo had a significant impact in Singapore, too: The last quarter of 2017 saw a 79% increase in calls made to AWARE’s Sexual Assault Care Centre. Later, in 2022, the movie She Said, which portrayed the behind-the-scenes of the Times investigation into Weinstein, featured Rowena Chiu as a character.

Much of the discussion at the AWARE event, which was moderated by Sugidha Nithi, centred on Chiu’s experience of being silenced by a Non-Disclosure Agreement (NDA) after her assault was brought to the attention of others at Miramax, Weinstein’s company, in 1998. Though originally designed to protect Intellectual Property, Chiu explained, NDAs are a civil agreement whose practical uses include the covering up of workplace sexual misconduct.

In detail, Chiu recounted the speed at which the NDA was negotiated and the restrictive clauses it entailed. She said that for one, she was forced to hand over contact details of family, friends and colleagues to whom she had spoken about the incident, to Weinstein’s team, and that the NDA required her to defend Weinstein if any of those contacts let slip about what he had done to her. She was also barred from freely contacting professionals, including therapists, doctors and lawyers, for support.

In the face of this, Chiu and her colleague Zelda Perkins put up a fight. They had their own demands for the NDA: including requiring Weinstein to attend sex therapy, and mandating that future female assistants work in pairs around him, instead of on their own. These, together with a clause demanding that Weinstein report himself to Disney and resign if another NDA was signed within two years, were included in the NDA. Ultimately, though, Chiu and Perkins had no means to ensure these clauses were upheld.

The NDA came to represent, for them, the struggle to hold accountable powerful individuals who had the means to buy silence. “It sealed us into a black hole,” Chiu recalled. Yet in 2019, after nearly two decades, Chiu and Perkins bravely opted to speak out against Weinstein despite being bound by the NDA. Today, Perkins runs a not-for-profit organisation Can’t Buy My Silence, which is working to raise awareness about the operation of NDAs in the United Kingdom, United States and Canada.

Rowena Chiu (centre, red) at the AWARE Centre on 14 April 2023

Another topic Chiu addressed at length is the difficulty of speaking up after experiences of abuse. Speaking up allows victims to find solidarity and demand equality. It also raises public awareness around sexual misconduct in the workplace, prompting conversations about unacceptable behaviours and encouraging policy change. Speaking up comes in many different forms: for instance, telling a friend or therapist, writing an article or even speaking on national television. Part of the reason why Chiu is so passionate about speaking up, she explained, is that speaking up can be significantly harder for Asian women. This may be due to unyielding family values, a sense of shame and the desire to protect one’s reputation, which take on added weight in Asian cultures.

Chiu is living proof that these obstacles can be overcome and that there is no time limit on speaking out. To date, 116 women have come forward with allegations against Weinstein—and perhaps more will speak out when they are ready.

When asked by an AWARE attendee what the best way is to change systems of abuse, without hesitation Chiu replied: “Accountability for enablers”. She argued that a huge reason why powerful abusers like Weinstein are able to continue behaving poorly is because they operate within systems that permit it. Weinstein, for instance, had a network of accountants, lawyers and board members who enabled his behaviour. This enabling behaviour simultaneously rewards perpetrators’ misconduct and prevents victims from speaking out. Chiu reiterated that in order to dismantle systems of complicity, we need to create policy and legal structures which safeguard against abuse.

One audience member raised a question about backlash to the MeToo movement. In particular, they asked Chiu how she responds to the post-MeToo idea that “men cannot be alone with a woman or even hold a door open for them without being accused of misconduct”. Chiu’s response was plain and simple: “If you are a man who feels like you can’t be alone with a woman at work without having an NDA result, you need to go home and reconsider your life’s priorities.” She added that although asking for consent and respecting it is often made to seem outrageous, these are in fact reasonable asks between members of society.

The final discussion centred around what MeToo means to Chiu personally. She said that the movement isn’t just about responding to individual incidents of powerful older men preying on young vulnerable women—it is concerned with abusive power dynamics, which can affect all people across the gender spectrum. Thus, the MeToo movement exists to support and empower all victim-survivors.

Chiu called herself an ordinary woman, but she is using her voice to bring about extraordinary change. On behalf of AWARE, we thank her for sharing her insights into healing and empowerment after abuse.

Sexual Assault Care Centre closed 24 – 28 April 2023

For the week of 24 April 2023 (Monday, 24 April to Friday, 28 April), AWARE’s Sexual Assault Care Centre (SACC) will be closed. During this period, the SACC Helpline (6779 0282) will be inactive, and staff will not be responding to emails.

SACC will reopen on Tuesday, 2 May 2023, after the Labour Day holiday. Emails will be answered from 2 May onwards (please allow up to five working days for response to emails sent during the closure).

Both our Women’s Helpline (1800 777 5555) and our Workplace Harassment and Discrimination Advisory Helpline (6777 0318) will remain fully operational during this time.

If you have experienced sexual assault within the last 72 hours, you may refer to this page for suggested actions, or consider other resources:

  • Call the National Anti-Violence Helpline at 1800 777 0000. They operate 24/7 and will be able to provide support for any violence you are facing.
  • For emergencies, please call 999 for the police.
  • Call 1767 for the Samaritans of Singapore (SOS) if you have thoughts of hurting yourself, including thoughts of suicide.

We seek your kind understanding and patience during this period.

6 May 2023: AWARE’s 38th Annual General Meeting 2023

Join us at AWARE’s 38th Annual General Meeting (AGM) on Saturday, 6 May 2023, 2pm. It will be our first in-person AGM since 2019 and we can’t wait to see our members together once again.

We will present an update on our work over the past year, and take your questions, comments and suggestions. Please note that in order to pass any resolutions relating to changes in the constitution, we would need to reach a quorum of 10% of our current members at the AGM. Your attendance is crucial to ensure that we have the necessary numbers to make important decisions for the organisation.

Please see the Notice for the 38th Annual General Meeting.

After the meeting, we invite you to join us for a delicious tea from 4.30pm onwards where you can reconnect with old friends and make new acquaintances. For those who are new to AWARE, this is a chance to learn more about our community and for us to get to know you better.

If you are a current member, kindly RSVP your attendance for the AGM through Eventbrite.* Please note that if your membership has expired or is close to expiry, you will need to renew it to attend the AGM. Renewal can be done easily through our Membership Portal with your username and password.

If you have any questions or concerns, please don’t hesitate to contact Kane at membership@aware.org.sg.

Date: Saturday, 6 May 2023
Time: 2pm to 5.30pm
Venue: AWARE Centre (5 Dover Crescent, #01-22, Singapore 130005)

RSVP here!

*This event is open to current members, renewed members whose past membership lapsed no earlier than 6 May 2021, and new members who joined us as a member before 25 March 2023. 

[Position filled] Communications Manager

We are no longer accepting applications for this position. 

AWARE is looking for a Communications Manager who is strategic, responsible, creative, analytical and well-versed in feminism and social justice topics.

As the leader of our small communications team, you will manage all public-facing platforms under the AWARE banner, including websites, social media accounts, EDMs, monthly newsletters, Eventbrite, research reports, printed collateral and more. You will also coordinate all media engagement, both local and international, undertaken by representatives of the organisation. Using these various communications tools, you will amplify AWARE’s advocacy messages to the public, the media and our diverse community of members, donors and clients. While housed officially under AWARE’s Advocacy, Research and Communications department, the Communications Manager works closely with all departments in AWARE (including the Fundraising team, CARE support services team and more), as well as leadership, to fulfil the organisation’s various needs.

The communications manager plays an integral part in AWARE’s functions and enjoys the privilege of stewarding a venerable civil society organisation through the exciting political landscape of Singapore. While the job involves a set of key responsibilities that need to be fulfilled, there is also scope for independent goal-setting and conceptualisation of new, creative projects. It is therefore a deeply rewarding, fast-paced role that rewards innovation, intellectual rigour, energy and passion in equal measure. If you are a media practitioner interested in making a tangible difference to the state of gender equality in Singapore, this is your opportunity.

Position: Communications Manager (Full-time; five-day work week)
Department: Advocacy, Research and Communications (ARC)
Starting date: 1 July 2023
Salary: $4,470 to $6,250

Job Description

  • Enhance the AWARE brand through proactive maintenance of the AWARE website, monthly newsletters, Annual Report and other regular communication with constituents.
  • Manage AWARE’s social media presence (Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, LinkedIn) for the sake of effective advocacy, public education and organisational needs, e.g. event publicity. This involves working with team members to produce meaningful content (both organic and paid), via copywriting, graphic design, photography and/or video that aligns with advocacy and overall AWARE goals. Occasionally respond to relevant news stories with topical commentary (in the form of longer-form statements) foregrounding a gender-informed, trauma-informed perspective.
  • Engage media to advance AWARE’s advocacy goals, e.g. by writing press releases, responding to media queries, pitching commentaries, etc. Occasionally front media opportunities as an AWARE spokesperson. Monitor all media mentions. Develop working relationships with journalists.
  • Facilitate interviews with all AWARE spokespersons, ensuring that all research and advocacy points are presented accurately and effectively. As part of case advocacy services, work with individual CARE clients in a trauma-informed way to advise and assist them with their personal media engagement objectives.
  • Collaborate with AWARE’s various departments and external partners to conceptualise and execute communications materials, events and campaigns, including fundraising campaigns at certain key points in the year.
  • Support and occasionally lead the running of AWARE events for various demographics (public or otherwise), both online and in person.
  • Support and occasionally lead other projects that relate to AWARE’s advocacy goals, in media such as books, theatre, film and/or audio.
  • Manage communications staff, interns, volunteers, contractors and other partners in various capacities throughout the year.

Requirements

  • A diploma/degree in Marketing, Communications, Media, English Literature or Gender Studies is preferred
  • At least five years’ experience in one or more of the following: editorial and journalism, digital marketing, social media management, PR and communications
  • Impeccable writing and editing skills in English, and extreme attention to detail. As it is your responsibility to ensure that all content is publication-ready, you will possess a keen editorial sense, with an ear for clean, sharp, impactful copy. You should be able to grasp the political implications of communications decisions and modulate tone, angle and strategy accordingly
  • Working knowledge of Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn and Instagram (and associated tools), Google Workspace, Google Ads, Google Analytics, WordPress and email marketing services such as MailChimp and SendInBlue
  • Ability to work independently and also manage people where necessary
  • High levels of organisation and ability to toggle between multiple projects at once
  • Proficiency with visual design and editing software, such as Canva, Adobe CC or others
  • Strong familiarity with key concepts relating to contemporary feminism
  • Strong familiarity with Singapore’s media and social media landscape, particularly as pertains to civil society, and ideally a network of contacts at media outlets

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Please note that due to the large number of applications, only shortlisted applicants will be contacted for an interview. If you have any questions about this position, please email careers@aware.org.sg.

[Position filled] AWARE Ball Project Coordinator (Six-month contract)

We are no longer accepting applications for this position. 

AWARE’s Fundraising team is looking for a Ball Project Coordinator for its annual fundraising gala in October 2023.

The Ball Project Coordinator will join AWARE’s dynamic fundraising team to plan and execute the AWARE Ball, from the initial conception of the event to its successful completion. This role requires excellent event-planning skills, along with the ability to work closely with the team and external vendors within tight deadlines, to ensure a successful, enjoyable event that meets organisational goals and expectations.

We are looking for someone who is creative, knows how to run a smooth large-scale event, is comfortable at handling the nitty gritty of logistics and is able to build relationships with our sponsors. They should be savvy, hands-on, excel at multitasking and balancing big-picture concerns such as fundraising strategy with details such as décor and menu selection. You will be a part of the organising team that raises the funds necessary for AWARE to operate its services and advance its mission of promoting women’s rights and gender equality.

More information about the previous 2022 Ball can be found here.

Position: Ball Project Coordinator
Contract Period: June to November 2023 (6 months) with first two months being part-time (80%) and final month being part-time (50%)
Salary: $5,000 a month at full-time rate

 

Job description

Support the Fundraising team in the planning and execution of the annual AWARE Ball:

  • Maintain project timelines, budgets and contingency plans
  • Assist in conceptualising event, including design and event communications work
  • Coordinate in-kind sponsorships for auction and lucky dips; coordinate with partners, corporate sponsors and performers
  • Arrange event logistics including transportation of collaterals, gifts and in-kind items, venue set-up, entertainment schedule to ensure that the event runs smoothly
  • Prepare event-related materials and recruit and train volunteers for the event
  • Evaluate the event’s success and prepare post-event reports to improve on future Balls
  • Support Ball Committee’s progress and organise meetings to ensure productive outcomes
  • Execute other operational and administrative tasks to ensure a successful event

Requirements

  • Strong project management and event-planning skills: highly creative, adaptable, a self-starter, able to work independently
  • Relevant experience in managing logistics and people
  • Excellent written and verbal communication skills
  • Proficiency with Google Suite, especially Google Docs and Sheets
  • Superb time-management and organisational skills
  • Competency in maintaining positive and effective working relationships with a broad range of stakeholders
  • Strong belief in gender equality and the values of AWARE

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Please note that due to the large number of applications, only shortlisted applicants will be contacted for an interview. If you have any questions about this position, please email careers@aware.org.sg.

Mediation can be counterproductive for victims of workplace discrimination

This letter was originally published in TODAY on 2 April 2023.

The Ministry of Manpower (MOM)’s response to Aware’s recommendations on the upcoming workplace fairness legislation bears further review.

Aware made our recommendations after the Tripartite Committee on Workplace Fairness released its interim report on the legislation on Feb 13.

One of our key suggestions was that victims of discrimination and harassment who have experienced severe psychological distress should be exempt from going through mediation before they bring their case to the Employment Claims Tribunal.

In its response, MOM maintained that a mediation-first approach has worked well so far, and would continue to prevent a litigious culture.

While this premise is laudable in theory, our experiences at Aware’s Workplace Harassment and Discrimination Advisory (WHDA) tell us that it is not always borne out in reality.

Mediation is not a one-size-fits-all solution to harassment and discrimination.

The mediation process as it stands is not trauma-informed: It does not take into account the (often severe) distress experienced by victims of workplace harassment and discrimination.

Multiple WHDA clients have reported feeling retraumatised during the process, hampering their ability to argue their case clearly and effectively.

One client, who was sexually harassed by her employer and then wrongfully dismissed, felt unable to respond to the mediator without breaking down emotionally.

Victims like these should be able to apply for an exemption from mediation, instead of being made to experience their trauma all over again.

Mediation can even be counterproductive. Multiple WHDA clients have been subject to yelling, threats and intimidation, and name-calling during their mediation with their former employers.

These victims were reportedly not provided any emotional support or intervention. One client had to endure this distress while heavily pregnant.

If mediation must be made mandatory, victims should at least be able to request a separate room from their employer.

This form of mediation is also known as “shuttle mediation”, where the mediator would go back and forth between the rooms during the process.

This way, victims do not have to risk facing aggressive behaviour from their employers.

Accommodations like these can at least save victims the ordeal of having to encounter their abusers in the flesh.

Given the above, we believe that a mandatory mediation-first approach leads to procedural dissatisfaction and increased distress for victims.

During this public consultation phase of the legislation, we urge the Government to reconsider our recommendation for selective exemptions from mediation.

Apoorva Shukla is an executive at the Association of Women for Action and Research’s (Aware) Workplace Harassment and Discrimination Advisory.

Workplace fairness proposals could be fairer

This op-ed was originally published in The Straits Times on 22 March 2023.

When we think of workplace fairness, we most likely imagine a work environment where everyone has an equal chance to succeed, and where employees are given the same opportunities and resources, regardless of their personal characteristics.

But this ideal environment is a far cry from the reality of Singapore today, where – as a 2022 national survey by the Association of Women for Action and Research (Aware) and Milieu Insight found – 55 per cent of workers had experienced at least one form of discrimination in the previous five years, including on the grounds of race, age and gender.

Anti-discrimination in the workplace is in the spotlight after a list of proposals was recently unveiled for the planned Workplace Fairness Legislation, set to be introduced in 2024.

In its interim report on the Bill, the Tripartite Committee on Workplace Fairness (TCWF) said it proposes to ban discrimination related to five key characteristics: age; nationality; sex, marital status, pregnancy status, and caregiving responsibilities; race, religion and language; as well as disability and mental health conditions.

However, as feminists and long-time anti-discrimination advocates, Aware has repeatedly called for universal protection for all workers, against all forms of discrimination. This is in contrast to the Government’s targeting of specific characteristics to protect against discrimination at work.

Though their objectives are the same, these approaches can look quite different in practice. We examine them in greater depth – and make the case for why protecting women, and other vulnerable persons, at work rightfully means protecting everybody.

The targeted approach to workplace fairness

While the universal approach to workplace fairness aims to ensure equal access for everyone, the targeted approach aims to meet the needs of specific population groups. It involves ensuring that unfair advantages cannot creep into hiring, promotion and other employment decisions, by having policies preventing this such as salary bands, blind recruiting, extension of flexible work arrangements to caregivers and provision of dependant care leave for those with dependants.

The strength of this targeted approach is that it can be tailored to the different needs of different groups. The main drawback is that targeting specific communities through policy can result in them being viewed as a special group with unique perks – leading to further hostility against them.

For instance, the right to request flexible working for parents of young children was introduced in the United Kingdom in 2003. Yet, it caused those parents to be seen as workers with benefits and perks others did not have.

A 2009 Equality and Human Rights Commission report found that employers sometimes even denied parents flexible work arrangements for fear of increasing resentment among other workers. And a 2011 report on flexible work described the “belief that flexible working is only of benefit to parents and carers and consequently for women” as they did most of the caring role. Some workers were concerned that working flexibly would therefore “harm their career prospects”.

How did the UK government tackle this problem? With a universal approach to workplace fairness.

The right to request flexible working was gradually opened up to other workers, starting with caregivers in 2007 and parents of older children in 2009, and eventually all in 2014. The opening up of the benefit meant that parents, particularly mothers, were less singled out as receiving benefits.

The universal approach to workplace fairness

Under the universal strategy, “fairness” focuses on protected activities, rather than protected characteristics. When organisations, for example, extend their leave policies to all workers, and not just those with family responsibilities, the protected activity in this case is time off. This recognises that, after all, mothers are not the only workers who need time off from work throughout the year.

There are circumstances that call for either targeted or universal approaches, and they need not be mutually exclusive. Some may find that universal policies afford less flexibility, providing a “one-size-fits all” programme. Yet, the approach also has a number of advantages. For one, it does not require policymakers to get caught up in defining protected characteristics and running the risk of entrenching fixed notions of, for example, “gender” or “disability” in law.

Also, the universal approach doesn’t inadvertently stigmatise any one group, and so attempts to sidestep the potentially destructive effects of identity politics. It avoids exacerbating the resentment that, for example, many working mothers assisted by Aware’s Workplace Harassment and Discrimination Advisory have faced from colleagues when they need to leave work early to tend to sick children, or store personal items such as breast pumps in the office.

This is why feminist groups like Aware have historically advocated for the right for all employees to request flexible work arrangements in Singapore, too. While working mothers, typically saddled disproportionately with childcare responsibilities, may have the most pressing need for such flexibility, the right grants everyone the same benefits.

The positive knock-on effects of protecting women in the workplace ultimately protect everyone. Similarly, while workers with mobility issues might have the most urgent needs for automatic doors or ramps, those office features ultimately are useful and convenient for everyone.

To most effectively increase workplace fairness in the long run, therefore, legislators and employers would do well to look beyond targeted approaches, and instead craft fairness policies that are universal by default.

Thinking outside the box

Other components, too, contribute to successful workplace fairness interventions, and workers’ perception that they belong to organisations that truly value them.

Take information. Are organisational changes, policies, work plans and strategies – information that should be available to all – readily accessible, or are they unevenly available, such as to some managers and leaders but not others? Lack of transparency and access to information fuels resentment and suspicion, which can lead to people quitting their jobs.

Another aspect of fairness is recognition. Are all employee contributions consistently recognised in the same manner? Or are there notable discrepancies in, for example, promotions and performance bonuses?

Safety at work also contributes to fairness: not just physical safety, but psychological safety. Fair workplaces create a culture where it is safe to speak out about workplace concerns, challenges or conflicts.

Similarly, all employees should be encouraged to apply for internal (and external) opportunities for which they believe themselves qualified. A system that encourages peer recommendations – not just top-down managerial ones – can democratise access to opportunity.

Why this matters to everyone in society

For employers, it is important to know that perceptions of fairness are the core driver of retention, engagement and performance in a workforce. They determine if employees will make an extra effort to achieve organisational goals or team objectives, or if they will slide into the professional apathy known as “quiet quitting” – or worse, resignation. A 2022 study found that perceptions of employee fairness around the world increased employee retention by 27 per cent, and performance by 26 per cent.

Clearly, Singapore’s workplace fairness Act should be comprehensive. Yet if Singapore does choose to take the targeted approach, it should still cover as many groups of workers as possible – instead of excluding certain communities by leaving, for example, sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression off its list of protected characteristics.

We have a long way to go to undo the corrosive effects of unfair treatment in the workplace, and establish truly fair and equal workplaces here – for women, LGBTQ+ persons and everyone.

Corinna Lim is executive director of Aware.