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A Recap: Financial Literacy and Low-Income Women Talk, by Daughters of Tomorrow and AIDHA

Written by Megan Tan, AWARE intern

What comes to mind when you hear the word “rich”? Are rich people smart or are they just lucky? What about the word “poor”? Are poor people disadvantaged or resourceful? Can money do wonders, or is it just paper?

These were some of the questions raised by presenter Tan Yingjie at the “Financial Literacy and Low-Income Women” talk at AWARE on 25 April 2019.

Yingjie is Special Projects and Corporate Partnership Manager for Daughters of Tomorrow (DOT), which provides assistance to low-income women through various programmes, such as skill-building. Her co-presenter that night was Jacqueline Loh, CEO of AIDHA, an organisation that provides financial literacy courses to foreign domestic workers living in Singapore. DOT and AIDHA—both recipients of AWARE’s Power Fund in 2018—came together to present their findings after conducting a financial literacy programme, entitled “Managing My Money”, for low-income women. Mentors from AIDHA led the 10 sessions in the programme.

Of the 13 participants who began “Managing My Money”, nine successfully graduated. Who were these participants, and why was it so important for them to learn financial literacy?

Because of their poverty, “some of the benefactors we serve actually struggle to get out of the house,” Yingjie told the audience. These women are forced to choose between spending their meagre savings on public transportation, or putting food on the table for the day. Simple best practices, therefore, were crucial lessons for these women, so that they could grow their savings and enable their money to serve them better.

After Yingjie kicked the talk off with the word association exercise mentioned above, she then tallied the audience’s sentiments. The overall results: General attitudes towards money were neutral, while attitudes towards the word “rich” were more positive, and those towards “poor” tended negative.

Those results were “kind of funny”, Yingjie remarked, because during the programme, participants had given opposite responses—displaying negative attitudes towards the word “rich” and the concept of money. This basic attitudinal tracking might seem inconsequential, but it was important, said Yingjie—after all, having more positive feelings about money generally encourages someone to keep track of their savings better.

One big takeaway from the programme, the presenters shared, was that participants benefited from a safe space to discuss their financial struggles. Additionally, they were able to hold each other accountable to their savings plans, created during the sessions. For instance, if one woman found she spent excessively on bubble tea, the other attendees would check in with her at the next session to make sure she had made progress in saving that expenditure.

Participants also exchanged saving tips with each other. One such tip was switching off the mains when leaving the house, to help lower utility fees.

To evaluate the programme’s effectiveness, DOT and AIDHA surveyed the participants before and after the programme. Yingjie and Jacqueline were pleased to announce that participants’ overall average monthly savings increased after the sessions. Prior to the programme, the figure stood at $68. After the programme, it had climbed to $156. “I can say pretty confidently that we reached our goals,” said Jacqueline.

Both presenters shared their plans for future iterations of the programme. There is always room for improvement—for example, making programme assignments more engaging, increasing enrolment and preventing future dropouts. Another proposed tweak was sharing more information with the programme’s mentors on each participant’s individual financial situation, to allow mentors to better advise the benefactors.

Overall, DOT and AIDHA deemed the programme to be successful at empowering low-income women. “It was really wonderful to see them at graduation,” said Jacqueline.

DOT and AIDHA will be conducting another run of the “Managing My Money” course. If you are keen to take part, or have beneficiaries to refer, please visit the Daughters of Tomorrow and AIDHA websites.

15 May 2019 Caregiver Training: All you need to know about wills and living wills

Back by popular demand! If you missed last month’s talk on caregivers and their legal options, or you’d like to build upon your knowledge about wills and living wills, then this event is for you.

On 15 May, AWARE is hosting a free talk on the legal aspects of caregiving for an elderly person. Lawyers from CNPLaw LLP and Lee & Lee will present this introductory session on wills and advanced medical directives (also known as living wills). It will cover general information on the functions and benefits of these documents, as well as factors to consider in their preparation. The talk will also cover property conveyancing and the steps of transferring legal ownership of property from one person to another.

Are you or someone you know considering making a will or an advanced medical directive? Or would you simply like to learn more about them? Hearing directly from these practicing lawyers is a great opportunity to answer any questions you might have as a caregiver.

When: 15 May 2019 (Wednesday), 7-8.30pm
Where: AWARE Centre, 5 Dover Crescent, #01-22, Singapore 130005

This talk is free. Refreshments will be provided.

About the speakers:

Edwin Chia is a partner in CNPLaw LLP’s Dispute Resolution Practice Group and Private Client Practice Group. As part of his practice, he regularly advises clients on wills and probate, lasting power of attorney, application under the Mental Capacity Act and contentious probate.

Michelle Chua is an associate in Lee & Lee’s Litigation and Dispute Resolution Department.

 

Register here!

Do universities need help keeping their students safe?

This post was originally published on The Straits Times on 4 May 2019.

by Shailey Hingorani, Head of Research and Advocacy, AWARE

Should the Singapore Government step in to help protect tertiary students from harm?

In September 2016, Nominated MP Louis Ng asked then Acting Minister for Education Ong Ye Kung if the ministry would formulate guidelines and provide anti-harassment training to staff in tertiary institutions in Singapore, based on the recommendations of the Tripartite Advisory on Managing Workplace Harassment.

Mr Ong assured Mr Ng that institution-specific codes of conduct were already in place to prevent harassment on campuses across the nation.

These guidelines, he said, were being communicated to students and staff. Survivors of harassment had access to various reporting channels.

In short, there was already a system in place, and it was functioning well – to both protect students from potential harassment and enable them to access justice when harassment did occur.

Back in 2016, the minister’s response may have been acceptable – comforting, even. Then #MeToo erupted in late 2017, shaking the wider population’s confidence in systemic protections against sexual violence.

This year, Singapore’s institutions are finally facing a #MeToo moment of their own.

A WATERSHED MOMENT

Last month, National University of Singapore (NUS) student Monica Baey criticised the way the school handled her case after she reported being filmed without consent by a fellow student in a residential hall while she was taking a shower.

Ms Baey’s story went viral, and turned a spotlight onto other recent cases of sexual harassment on campus, as well as the policies and practices of universities in Singapore.

Some of those institutions, it became apparent, have had inadequate systems of managing harassment for far too long.

One example is NUS’ simplistic “two strikes and you’re out” policy for sexual misconduct. Universities in Singapore need to be held more accountable for keeping their students safe.

There are six public universities in Singapore, and half a dozen foreign universities with local campuses. In the wake of this scandal, many have talked about reviewing their policies – NUS, for example, announced that its review committee, which includes three student representatives, will have a first round of recommendations out later this month.

So while it’s unfortunate that a crime had to occur before campus safety received some much-deserved scrutiny, we might have a chance now to turn Ms Baey’s terrible experience into a legacy of stronger systems in institutions across Singapore.

The question is, how?

A COORDINATED, NATIONWIDE APPROACH

University administrators and staff face practical challenges in dealing with campus harassment. They want to do the right thing, but they need support – because the fact is that investigating and managing sexual violence are difficult. The process is time-intensive and resource-heavy, and calls for nuance and specialisation.

These observations come from the experience of Aware’s Sexual Assault Care Centre (SACC), the only centre in the country dedicated to assisting and counselling sexual violence survivors.

After dealing with cases on a daily basis for nine years, SACC has learned a great deal about sexual violence, and developed the hard-won experience, aptitude and skills to tackle it.

Outside of Aware, others have recognised the need for specialised training in the area of sexual violence – the police, for example, have their own Serious Sexual Crimes Branch, which takes steps to familiarise officers with the effects of trauma on survivors.

Taking the specialised nature of this field of work into account, I have two proposals on how universities can be supported to better protect students.

First, I propose that the Government introduce codes and standards on how universities should prevent and manage sexual offences.

Second, I propose that a special cross-campus body be set up to handle sexual offence and assault cases. After all, the number of sexual offences on campuses is not small. Recent reports said 25 cases were brought before the disciplinary board of just one institution, NUS, over the academic years 2015/2016 to 2017/2018.

The dozen universities here cater to tens of thousands of students each year. Some sexual offence cases can be complex; for example, if they involve an abuse of power, lack of hard evidence, disputes over consent and so on.

CODE AND STANDARDS

The code introduced by the Government can be similar to the Tripartite Advisory on Managing Workplace Harassment, but it should be mandatory for all institutions of higher learning in Singapore. It can be adapted with definitions customised for the campus setting, incorporating feedback from students and experts.

This code should set out the duties of the schools to ensure zero tolerance of sexual harassment, provide adequate victim-care support, and set out standards and principles for investigating and managing sexual harassment incidents.

Over the past few years, as Aware has been invited to train certain university departments, we have had a chance to review several policies. This has driven home a few key lessons about campus harassment, which point to the necessity of such a code.

One: There is no consistent definition of what constitutes sexual harassment, misconduct or offence across different institutions.

For example, not all policies that we have reviewed specifically talk about situations where a person might be incapable of giving consent because of incapacitation, unconsciousness, sleep or a drug-or alcohol-induced state. Thus, the same case handled by two different bodies might result in two very different outcomes.

Two: Universities have varying complaint, investigation and disciplinary processes, all documented to different degrees across institutions. Some are relatively sophisticated and comprehensive; some are rather basic. The variation is unsettling – after all, safety processes should not be something students have to weigh when they choose universities.

Three: Even when there are anti-harassment processes in place, students often do not know whom to contact and what support is available. Designing strong policies is just the first step; their effectiveness erodes when they aren’t backed by clear and regular communication.

On that note, institutions might be tempted to rely primarily on e-learning to disseminate this important information, but while digital channels can suffice for certain types of messages, studies have shown that they need to be accompanied by in-person training for people with higher-level responsibilities; such as student leaders, managers or resident advisers.

Four: Not enough consideration is given to victim care. The universities with the best survivor support systems have properly trained counsellors; their students had also been trained to provide informed “first responder” support – which is critical to the recovery of the survivor, and plays a big part in reducing his or her trauma. Insensitive first-responder response – for example, invasive questions about clothing choices and sexual history – can trigger another wave of trauma in survivors.

Having a mandatory code that contains important basic requirements and a standard set of best practices will save institutions the arduous, frequently ineffectual work of having to make these decisions for themselves. With a code, they can receive expert guidance, and learn from each other’s experiences.

AN INDEPENDENT BODY

Apart from having a code of standards on the handling of sexual offences, the Government should also consider setting up an independent body for campus sexual offences across Singapore.

This body will manage the investigation and adjudication process for determining the appropriate discipline, and ensure that universities continue to improve their safety standards. This leaves universities free to focus on providing victim care and running prevention programmes.

How this might work is simple: Initial reporting can be made to a designated person in a residence hall or department, who can coordinate victim care almost immediately. That person then sends the case to the independent body to investigate.

This body will be comprised of experienced investigators and a panel. It will work speedily, based on a process of investigations, adjudication and appeals that has been drafted with feedback from students, experts and survivors, and made accessible to everyone on campus.

Any inquiries into a sexual assault complaint should focus not only on whether the assault occurred, but how it impacted the survivor as a student – such as whether his or her grades, attendance or mental health suffered – and whether the assault hindered the survivor’s ability to study and feel safe in that school environment.

Besides expertise and consistency, one further benefit of the independent body is that it could provide more accountability. It can, for example, conduct annual student, staff and faculty climate surveys; conduct institutional audits of responses to sexual misconduct; and ensure minimum levels of training for on-campus personnel, including victim-care units.

Even if an independent body is not set up, perhaps the Ministry of Education could take on the mantle of auditing and reviewing to make sure that all universities have the right processes and trained personnel in place, and that there is some annual reporting back to the public via the ministry.

The benefits of this national, coordinated approach to managing campus harassment are clear: Universities would rely on external expertise, instead of having to devote resources to building up their own.

Students would enjoy consistency of practice and outcomes throughout the nation’s tertiary education system.

Any society that takes the education of its citizens seriously must protect, as best as it can, the sanctity of their learning experience. Let’s not wait for more scandals to pile up before we take serious action against campus harassment.

A Recap: AWARE’s 34th Annual General Meeting

Written by Regalla Sharmistha, AWARE intern

Fifty-four members attended AWARE’s 34th Annual General Meeting on Saturday, 27 April 2019.

Typical of a non-election year, the meeting—chaired by AWARE President Margaret (Margie) Thomas—focused on AWARE’s achievements in the past year, and its plans for 2019. Members also shared suggestions for the organisation’s work.  

This year marks the 10-year anniversary of the AWARE Saga, a historic civil society event that had a great impact on AWARE as an organisation. As Margie noted, the saga was a key impetus in the professionalisation of AWARE, turning it from a mostly volunteer-run organisation into the bustling NGO it is today. For a deeper look at the saga, Margie and AWARE Executive Director Corinna Lim encouraged members to attend Where Were You?, a party on 4 May at which footage of key events from 2009 will be screened.

The president also highlighted two major developments launched in 2018: the Power Fund, an initiative to support other women’s rights groups, and Singapore Alliance of Women in Ageing (SAWA), an alliance between four non-profits in Singapore with a focus on supporting elderly women.

Members then received updates from each of AWARE’s departments, based on the 2018 Annual Report.

Shailey Hingorani, Head of Research and Advocacy, reported on AWARE’s research and advocacy on low-income mothers and eldercare. She also highlighted the publication of Growing up Perempuan, an anthology about the lives of Muslim women in Singapore, which has sold more than 400 copies to date. The team is also conducting a nationwide survey on gender and work this year, and planning a longitudinal study on the impact that steady housing has on single, low-income parents.

Ashley Chua, program coordinator at the Women’s Care Centre (WCC), was proud to announce that WCC had launched a Syariah Law legal clinic in 2018. WCC also extended its Helpline hours, ran its first marketing campaign in Helpline history and recruited bilingual Helpliners, which contributed to a 32% increase in calls and 48% increase in counselling sessions. They expect a further increase in calls in 2019. This year, WCC is running a support group, and conducting trauma-informed training for volunteers.

Xiu Xuan Lim, case manager at AWARE’s Sexual Assault Care Centre (SACC), reported a 54% increase in SACC cases in 2018. One big accomplishment in 2018 was the launch of Aim for Zero, a two-year campaign to push for zero tolerance towards sexual assault. The launch featured a video of survivors sharing their experiences to raise awareness about the issue; this video was shared on social media 1,000 times, racking up 70,000 views and extensive press coverage, within a week. SACC aims to continue its efforts under this campaign in 2019, and continue its Sexual Assault Awareness and First Responder Trainings for the public.

Corinna announced that 2018 was a remarkable year for AWARE’s corporate training arm, Catalyse Consulting, with a 77% increase in workshop participants. Apart from training, 2018 saw Catalyse branching into consultancy, conducting climate surveys on harassment issues and making recommendations to clients. This year, the CC team aims to extend their services to even more companies.

On the fundraising front, 2018 also saw growth, with a total of $1.9 million raised compared to $1.53 million in 2017. The final presentation of the day was by AWARE treasurer Jean Low, who gave an overview of AWARE’s financial status.

After the presentations, members had an opportunity to pose questions. Issues raised included the nuances of AWARE’s ongoing relationship with the government, AWARE’s efforts to support marginalised communities, and ways that the organisation can better accommodate its non-binary members.

Before the meeting adjourned for tea, Margie thanked the members for participating at the AGM. She assured members that AWARE would continue to do its best in fighting for an inclusive and diverse society.

9 May 2019 Screening: Factory (Super)Women and Q&A with director Pang Wei Han

On Thursday evening, 9 May, join director Pang Wei Han and AWARE for a screening of the documentary short film Factory (Super)Women, followed by a discussion with Pang (and his mother, Madam Voo)!

Factory (Super)Women is an enlightening documentary about the factory women who paved the way towards Singapore’s economic success. It sheds new light on a forgotten, female piece of the jigsaw puzzle of our nation’s history.

To capture their stories, young filmmaker Pang and his team interviewed more than 30 such women—including Pang’s own relatives.

He says, “I started this project because both my mother and grandmother worked as factory workers, and so female factory labor has truly shaped me and who I am today. By providing the women a platform to remember, reminisce and reflect about their own experiences, our documentary and exhibition are infused with their bittersweet memories of factory work—from the stress and struggles of the production line to the sense of community and sisterhood with their fellow workers.”

Factory (Super)Women came about as part of The Future of Our Pasts Festival, a Yale-NUS arts and media programme showcasing stories from Singapore history. In full, Factory (Super)Women comprises both the documentary film and an exhibition; only the film will be presented on 9 May.

When: 9 May 2019, 7-8.30pm
Where: AWARE Centre, 5 Dover Crescent, #01-22, Singapore 130005

This screening is free. Refreshments will be provided.

 

About the guests:

Pang Wei Han is a history major from Yale-NUS College. He is passionate about Southeast Asia, and wrote his thesis on Buddhist Art in Cambodia. His grandmother, mother and father all worked in factories (his parents met in a factory!), and the industrial experience has deeply shaped him and the values that he holds. Graduating in 2019, Wei Han hopes to pursue a career in education.

Madam Voo began working at factories in 1979 during her polytechnic days. She worked at GE, KDK and Polycore during her holiday periods, and continued to work in the HR departments of factories ater graduating with a diploma in Business Studies from Ngee Ann Polytechnic. In the years since, she has worked at Hitachi, Nemic Lambda and various other companies. Most recently, she worked part time doing administrative work for Great Eastern.

 

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25 May 2019 Workshop: Sexual Assault First Responder Training

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

“Are you sure that happened? Why didn’t you fight back? You should have known better.”

One experience of sexual assault is one experience too many. We may not always know the right words to say, but we can all agree that sexual assault should never happen to anyone. One way to show zero tolerance for sexual assault is through our own words and actions.

It is not always easy for survivors to tell someone about what happened. In fact, for some survivors, it can be especially daunting. For vulnerable groups, there may be additional barriers to seeking support, as telling someone about their assault could be accompanied by the fear of further persecution and judgment. First response that is sensitive to the survivor’s needs and choices is necessary in preventing re-victimisation.

SACC’s First Responder Training helps familiarise participants with trauma reactions and symptoms to better contribute to a survivor’s well-being. In this workshop, SACC will share more on the following:

1. Definition of sexual assault and harassment
2. Recognising Singapore’s legal framework
3. Understanding consent
4. Understanding the impact of sexual assault and trauma on survivors
5. Role of a first responder
6. Providing support to survivors of sexual assault
7. Resources available for help
8. Key skills such as ensuring safety, active listening and empathy

As part of our Aim for Zero campaign, SACC is offering this workshop at a highly discounted price. Details are as follows:

When: 25 May 2019, 10.00am – 2.00pm [4 hours]
Where: 5 Dover Crescent #01-22 S(130005)
For whom: All NGO/VWO staff and volunteers, social sector professionals or students above 16 years old studying a relevant discipline (e.g. psychology, counselling, social work etc.)
Cost: $10 (Light refreshments will be provided)

Slots for this workshop are limited to 60 sign-ups only. Persons of all genders and nationalities are more than welcome to attend. Walk-ins are welcome!

We strongly request that all participants commit to the full duration of the 4-hour workshop to ensure that everyone will get the opportunity to engage in interactive discussions and learn useful skills.

Note: For participants who are unable to pay the sign-up fee, please contact Xiu Xuan at xiuxuan@aware.org.sg to request a waiver. Please note that all proceeds to towards SACC and that the fee is non-refundable.

Register here!

AWARE’s statement on the 2018 Samuel Seow videos

Last weekend, AWARE came to know about the 2018 incident, captured on recently released videos, in which Samuel Seow hit and berated employees at his office.

The content of the video is horrifying. There is absolutely no excuse for Seow’s behaviour, and we hope that he seeks the help that he needs. We also express our deepest sympathies to the women he subjected to his violence.

It is imperative that workplaces remain safe at all times for every single individual who enters them. Harassment of any nature—physical, verbal, sexual, etc.—is simply unacceptable at the workplace, as elsewhere. AWARE’s Women’s Helpline is open Monday to Friday for any women facing harassment who would like emotional support, legal guidance and practical advice.

We were further surprised at Seow’s actions because his company Beam Artistes was one of the organisers behind the exhibit #DontTellMeHowToDress, which ran at the NomadX space this past month. #DontTellMeHowToDress is an exhibit that displays the clothes (or replicas of the clothes) worn by sexual assault survivors at the time of their assault; the objective is to challenge the myth that any particular way of dressing can induce or excuse sexual violence. Its founder, Cindy Bishop, had launched successful iterations in other Southeast Asian countries before this year. When the exhibit travelled to Singapore, AWARE was contacted by the organisers, and some of our Aim For Zero campaign spokespersons contributed clothes to the exhibit.

We were all excited to be a part of Cindy’s vision. Therefore, it was disappointing to find out that the owner of a company that helped put together such a meaningful campaign did not himself uphold the values—such as respect—expounded by the work.

J’s story: Retrenched immediately after maternity leave

Our “Your Stories” series are submissions shared with us via email or in one-on-one interviews, for the purposes of our research and campaigns. All names have been changed (unless the use of real names was explicitly permitted by the author), and we have sought permission to publish from the authors/interviewees themselves. The opinions expressed in these posts do not represent those of AWARE.

J: I had been working at this company for about four years. I became pregnant and I took the full 16 weeks of maternity leave. They paid the maternity benefits and everything was properly executed.

On the day that I went back to work after my maternity leave, my boss told me that they did not have that position for me anymore. My position was being retrenched.

Prior to me going back to work, I had emailed my boss to inform her that I might have to take some time off to look after my child in case my child is not well. I was intending to send my child to infant care, but I was just letting my boss know that if my child needed to stay at home, I would be taking some time off work. I emailed my boss during my maternity leave, but there was no response. It seemed fishy, but I didn’t want to think too much about it. I thought my boss wasn’t responding because she was busy.

When I went back to work, first thing in the morning, my boss called me in to the meeting room. And she told me that they didn’t need my position anymore. They already had prepared the retrenchment letter and the cheque for retrenchment. And that was it.

At that time, I didn’t want to make a big fuss about it. I asked them what the reason was for this, and their reasons were quite standard: The company was not doing well, they didn’t need my position anymore. They were giving me retrenchment benefits which, back then, were in line with MoM law. It was all very well planned. There was nothing I could find fault with. Everything was done according to law, so there was nothing really to dispute. But it happened exactly on the day that I came back to work, and there was no other staff member being retrenched.

A part of me had been kind of expecting it, because of the way the company had treated other staff before that—but it was still a shock to me. I felt discriminated; I felt that it was not fair. I was furious. I told family and close friends about it, and they helped me through that time. They were all very supportive and encouraging, and they told me that I should let them know if I needed any help with anything. Family and friends are always the most important circle around you.

In hindsight, it wasn’t doomsday. After the whole incident, I took a year off to spend time with my daughter. Looking back now, after years have passed, I am probably in a better job and role today then if I had stayed there. But of course at that time it was horrible.

A lot has changed over the last couple of years in Singapore, but I think that a lot of it is just talk, for show. There is not enough support for working mothers in Singapore. And even though everyone is talking about work flexibility for working mothers, sometimes it is just not possible within a company because of the scope of the job. The changes that need to be done take too much effort. It then comes down to the people in the company and their willingness to make the effort to implement these changes. Often it takes too much effort, and they just do not do it.

It’s about how the leaders of the company want to present themselves to employees. It’s about personal ethics and personal leadership choices.

I wanted to share this story because I am sure that I am not the only one who was let go after coming back from maternity leave. Usually when companies want to do these kind of things, they follow the law and do it the “right way”. Ethically and professionally it is not right, but legally it is.

I hope this story brings hope to people who are in this situation, because at the time it happens, you feel horrible and unwanted—but at the end of it, it’s what you make out of the situation. A few years down the line, it might not seem as bad anymore. But it is still something that should not have happened.

If you are facing discrimination at your workplace, you can call AWARE’s Workplace Harassment and Discrimination Advisory (6777 0318, Mon-Fri, 10am – 6pm). An advisor will listen to your experience and suggest some options based on your situation.

Here’s what zero tolerance towards sexual misconduct looks like

This post was originally published on Channel NewsAsia on 24 April 2019.

by Corinna Lim, Executive Director of AWARE

Sometimes, it just takes one brave woman to speak up to make the world fairer and safer for all.

Monica Baey did that when she spoke up last week about her experience after a fellow National University of Singapore (NUS) student was caught filming her in the shower.

ADEQUACY OF PUNISHMENT

Understandably, most of the focus has been on the adequacy of the punishment. The police issued a statement on Tuesday (Apr 23) to explain the factors they considered when deciding on his punishment of a 12-month conditional warning – such as age, potential for rehabilitation and re-offence, remorsefulness, and the absence of any other obscene materials on his devices.

Student safety has been a recurrent theme in the discussion surrounding this case.

But Ms Baey’s case surfaces another equally important issue: The responsibility of educational institutions to enforce a zero-tolerance attitude to sexual harassment and assault on campus.

TOLERANCE TO SEXUAL MISCONDUCT IN NUS

When such incidents happen, students rightfully expect their institutions to do the right thing, which includes providing the necessary support, taking prompt steps to investigate and, where the accused is found guilty, meting out appropriate sanctions.

If this is not done, the complainant may feel unsafe or worse, re-victimised by the system.

For NUS, it is not clear exactly how it went about investigations in this case, and what it did to try to support Ms Baey.

It appears that the university felt that it could have done better, in which case it responded well: Announcing that it would commence a review of its processes, and calling a townhall meeting to discuss the matter with its student body, among other measures.

As for the sanctions imposed, suspension and expulsion are not the only options NUS has recourse to.

Education institutions in the US have an array of other options, such as probation, transcript notations, no-contact conditions, compulsory training, mental health assessments, mandatory rehabilitative counselling (similar to what is offered under our family violence regime) and other means of restorative justice.

Managing sexual harassment incidents is never easy, especially when the institution is as large and de-centralised as NUS. What is a fair outcome? I would argue much of it concerns the process of how such incidents are managed.

THREE LESSONS

AWARE, through its consultancy arm, Catalyse Consulting, has supported many Institutes of Higher Learning (IHLs) in their efforts to institute and improve internal systems of reporting, investigation and discipline to prevent and manage harassment. We have also trained their staff to implement each of these processes professionally.

We have gained three key lessons from our 10 years of work in this area.

 

1. Prevention is the best cure

One case is one too many. Every case is a crisis to be managed. Many things can go wrong, especially if personnel managing the case are inexperienced.

At the end of the day, whatever the outcome, people will be hurt in the process, and there will usually be some dissatisfied parties. In an age of social media, the stakes are even higher, and things can spiral out of control.

So IHLs should do whatever they can to prevent and deter such incidents. This includes:

  • Instilling confidence in the system: Policies must provide for no-retaliation and all complaints must be professionally investigated. Wrongdoers must be held accountable and there should be no attempts to “hush up” any wrongdoing;
  • Having clear, written policies accessible to all;
  • Running anti-harassment public education campaigns;
  • Providing anti-harassment training for all students starting from orientation.

The good news is that many students care about this issue, as can be seen from the public response to the incident. They can and should be engaged to build a culture of respect in the IHL. This will go a long way to reduce incidents.

2. Good policies and protocols are your friends

When a case occurs, everyone is in crisis mode. The IHL will be under a lot of pressure from different parties.

This pressure can be greatly relieved by having clear policies and protocols in place. That way, parties involved know what to expect, and the staff managing the grievance are more likely to do the right thing.

The starting point always has to be a presumption of innocence until proven guilty. And the process must be one that takes into account all parties’ perspectives.

Protocols must have timelines and the people managing the process must ensure that they act quickly and within the timelines.

In most cases, the eventual outcome will not satisfy everyone. But if there is a clear and transparent process that appears fair, people will find results easier to accept.

I once worked with a survivor who was unhappy with the outcome of her case, as the investigation had not turned up sufficient evidence.

However, this survivor felt that her case had been fairly and appropriately handled: It was investigated by a third-party (lawyers who had counselling training and specialised in cases like hers), who asked questions in a professional and empathetic manner, and explained the next steps to all involved with clarity and expediency.

So, while she wished there had been a different result, the survivor was able to come to terms with it.

3. Managing harassment is complex. Training is critical. 

Having policies and protocols in place is just the beginning.

Most harassment cases are complicated. Evidence and consent are often an issue. Investigations may involve multiple parties and may be a lot more protracted.

The situation may become emotionally charged with parties involved anxious about their safety and repercussions. It is not uncommon for parties to experience trauma, depression or social ostracisation.

Ensuring parties’ well-being is critical. Counsellors should be at hand to provide support.

Those interacting with the complainant and offender must be mature, sensitive and empathetic. They should also be properly trained to understand the nuances of human power dynamics and sexual harassment, and must come across as fair, credible, knowledgeable and professional.

Managing harassment incidents is not easy. So, it is best to centralise the management of such cases to a team that has received the necessary training and is experienced in dealing with such cases.

 

The trauma wrought on survivors by sexual harassment still frequently goes unacknowledged. We often talk of criminal records – or even just accusations – “ruining the lives” of perpetrators, without speaking in the same breath of the lasting psychological and emotional wounds borne by their victims – especially in the absence of some measure of justice.

I met a woman once who had been harassed by a lecturer when she was a university student. The lecturer received no material punishment and was allowed to continue working at the school.

A decade after that event, the woman remained haunted – not only by her own harassment, but by the potential harassment she worried other students after her might have suffered under his charge. She was even taking steps on her own to try to find other possible victims.

My point is: By not taking harassment seriously, and not doling out commensurate action when it occurs, we are robbing survivors of the closure they so desperately need to heal.

Combating sexual harassment and fostering a culture of safety, respect and accountability in campuses require leadership, commitment and time.

I urge all IHLs to intensify their efforts to ensure campuses are safe, respectful and equipped to adequately support survivors and hold offenders accountable.